Sabsai accha mard
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Rasulalla Huzur hazrat Muhammad mustufa sallallahualayhiwasallam nai irshaad farmaya. Kaamil imaan walay wo hai. Jo apnai ikhlaq mai sabsai acchai hai. Or tum mai sabsai acchai wo hai. Jo apni biwiyo kai Haq mai sabsai acchai hai. imaan khuda or uskai Deen par pukhta yaqeen ka naam hai...
Imaan wa yaqeen nazar aanai wali cheez nhi hai. Jo kuch hamai nazar aata hai. wo insaan kai ikhlaq or maamlaat or bartaow hai. imaan kis darjai ka hai. Uska andazah ham ikhlaq or bartaow sai hi kar saktai hai. Imaan sai acchai ikhlaq, acchi aadtay, acchai maamlaat or acchi sifaat hi paida hoti hai. Dil mai agar imaan mowjood hai too amli zindigi mai ussai naikiya hi phootaingee...
Naik ikhlaq or pasandeedah sifaat imaan Kai laazmi samraat hai. Or jo shakhs ikhlaq khoobiyo sai aaraasta hai. wo yaqeenan mominai kaamil hai. Phir acchi aadat,acchai ikhlaq or acchai bartaow ko janchnai ka pehla Or asal fitri maidaan gharailu zindigi hai. Or bilkhosoos zindigi ki wo sharikai hayaat hai. Jo aqdai nikah mai aanai kai baad mard ki zindigi mai sabsai ziyadah dakheel, sabsai ziyadah qareeb or hamah waqt mutaaluq hai...
Sharikai hayaat kai sath zindigi guzarnai hi mai mizaj wa ikhlaq or seerat wa kirdaar ka har rukh saamnai aata hai. Gharailu zindigi mai tasannaa Or banawat ka pardah ziyadah dair tak pada nhi reh sakta. iss maidaan mai jo shakhs narm mijaaz, insaaf pasand, aisaar paisha, kashadah Dil, burdbaar, hamdard wa gham gusaar hai. too wo yaqeenan musalmaan ki sosaiety ka sabsai behtreen aadmi hai...
Gharailoo zindigi mai azmat Or bhalaye ki baat yai nhi hai. Kai aadmi har waqt apni badaye jatayai kisi waqt apni baat neechi na honai dai. har waqt hukumraa bana rahai. taivree chadhayai rakhai. Or apna roab jamanai ki fikr mai rahai. Azmat, bhalaye or deendari ki baat yai hai kai. Ahailay khana kai sath aadmi, khush mizaaji, baitakallufi, diljoi, meharbani, shafqat, muhabbat, narmi, dildaari, afu wa darguzar or ghamgusaari sai paish aaye, gharailoo zindigi mai dilkashi Or khushgawari isi tarha paida ho sakti hai...
Nabi huzur hazrat Muhammad mustufa sallallahualayhiwasallam ka irshaad hai. Momin apni momnah biwi sai, nafrat wa baizaari ka izhaar na krai. Agar uski koi aadat usai napasand hai. too ho sakta hai kai koi dusri khoobi usai pasand aa jaaye. Or phir yai bhi farmaya...
Tum mai sabsai behtar wo hai. Jo apnai ahailai khana kai Haq mai sabsai behtar hai. Or mai tum sabmai apnai ahailai khana kai liyai behtar ho. Yai hadees darasal Quraan hakeem Kai iss fiqray ki amli tashreehaat hai. wa aashirow hunna bilmaaroof (Or unkai sath acchai suluk ki zindigi guzaro)...
